Give up the search By merely paying attention. The old Thomas was on that perpetual search. Always looking for everything that I never e...

413 days later. Finally diagnosed with Conjugate Gaze Palsy. Everything with my eyes is neurological. SURPRISE. Was I shocked? No. Wa...

Trey was the 3rd. Tres-3/Trey-III Trey was.....Trey. How would you even describe someone that’s so indescribable. Trey operated on Trey...

is may be the hardest thing I’ve ever had to write. People have asked so many questions about Trey. And most of what we told people was ...

Did it. 12 months to the date since I was released... the Day I started rehab I could take 3 steps. 1 year later...I just completed 21...

One year ago was the happiest day of my life. For this one day everything was perfect. Everything was looking up. ***this post is goin...

Plan is to Not to make you cry So apparently I need to lighten up on the writing. (Someone complained...Alicia) It’s not intentional. ...

It’s scary. Really really scary. Being laid up Paralyzed in the hospital I was very lucky to have Trey, Benton, Mom, Alicia, Brenda, To...

Holy mess. Probably the hardest thing for me to think about. No, the hardest thing to think about. When it was time to tell everyone a...

So how the hell did this all happen? People constantly tell me that Covid doesn’t cause hemorrhaging\pontine strokes... Yes, well thank ...

Does anyone have a Budgeting App that they really like? Preparing to be on a more fixed income, and really wanting to plan and start gett...

How exactly do you prepare for something like this? What exactly do you do? Should you do? Is there any preparing? Can you really even...

It was a year and a couple days ago...maybe 2 3/4 days ago. I was scheduled to be released from the hospital on the 15th. I was so read...

Beau Beau wanted to be with the chickens so bad. If you couldn’t find him you’d have to look outside and there he’d be. Sitting with ...

Get Comfy... So, I’ve always been a big big fan of quilts. Everywhere we ever went if there was a quilt in the building Trey would liter...

If this past year had been anything it’s been a year of adjustments...For everyone. I do t know to consider myself lucky, or not. I knew...

My name is Benton. Hello Everyone! I’m the other guy in the camper, the driver. Throughout this blog I will be posting alongside Thoma...

If 2020 was anything it was a major wake up call. In so many ways. so many. Since about 2015 (brendas surgery) Trey has been on me abou...

First off, I have to apologize. My mind skips all over...so this all seems very random. I’m just trying to get all of my feelings out ...

I have always had this horrible fear of cancer, really any health issues. In the movies and on TV everything is so overly dramatized an...