Change…
It’s not easy. At all. The last 4/5 years have been nothing but change. I think I’ve had enough change in my life…but all I get, is...
TREY, THOMAS & BENTON
AN UNEXPECTED, ODD, LITTLE FAMILY
LIFE. CANCER. STROKE. DEATH. RECOVERY & LEARNING TO LIVE AGAIN.
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Long Story Short…
___________________________ There are so many new readers, and this blog is about to change … so I figured this was a good time to catch...
Adjustments…
They have been numerous, they have been nonstop, they have been hard, all in different ways. Some were forced, right then, right...
Three Amigos pt. 2…
Seeing the love Trey and Thomas shared, the connection they had….you could feel it when you were around them, or when you walked into the...
Three Amigos pt.1
Sometime in August 2016, long…long…long ago. I was working three jobs and going to film school just trying to make it. Running on barely...
Getting to Good…
I have always always struggled with self esteem and self worth. Always. For as long as I can remember. It was always a point of...
Emotional Flood…
Last night I was sent a slew of text messages Trey had with someone from the day I went into the hospital until the last day Trey had his...
Memorial Day Weekend...
Always fun...picnics, food, family, summer, laid back, relaxed. This year is totally different. I guess because last year was such a...
Patience is a virtue...
The past two weeks have been really very difficult. Not from any one thing...just a culmination of many things, all at once....
Horrificult.
I was texting April a few weeks ago and she made up this word(she’s from West Virginia - the just make up words if they don’t understand)...
Benton...
Everything is alright. Everything is alright. But, I knew it wasn’t. We would come home from work somedays, and everything was so...
Under pressure...
Why do we place so much pressure o. ourselves? Every damn day. Totally unnecessary not needed pressure. Sure. The pressure of basic...
843.343.9678
438 days since I’ve called that number, and I still need to call that number almost everyday and ask... what time are you coming home?...
The last day...
It was Tuesday. No one was supposed to be coming over. T&B had meetings scheduled with the accountant, lawyers, somebody. I tried to...
What if???
You know the part that sucks the most? Feeling like a failure. Thinking I let Trey down. We did something wrong, or didn’t try...
Life is so unfair.
Really it is. In every way. i just don’t understand it. Trey wasn’t done. There was so much more he wanted to do, so much more he...
Tuesday - March 10, 2020
It was a normal day...Somewhat. The doctor visit was at 3 this afternoon. Trey woke up...feeling okay. But that was the height of his...
The meeting...
The meeting no one ever wants, or thinks about.
Adjusting
It’s incredibly hard, incredibly slow...did I say incredibly hard? I imagine it’s hard for everyone like this. I envy the people I see...
March 4th
It’s hard to put into words how all of this is, and has been. Incredibly hard is an understatement, tough doesn’t even start to scratch...